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Sincerely: moreoy: i just sincerely wish that Boethiah stays as female in the future gamesand also gets fucking rippedand slam dunks this pathetic excuse of daedric prince into a fucking pit
Sincerely: moreoy:

i just sincerely wish that Boethiah stays as female in the future gamesand also gets fucking rippedand slam dunks this pathetic excuse of daedric prince into a fucking pit

moreoy: i just sincerely wish that Boethiah stays as female in the future gamesand also gets fucking rippedand slam dunks this pathetic...

Sincerely: pieprincess-andthe-fallenangel: westotanu: jeanjauthor: ao3commentoftheday: You’ve heard of lemons and the Citrus Scale? Well, what about KINKTOMATO? KINKTOMATO is an important concept in fandom. It’s a humourous re-spelling of YKINMKATO - Your Kink Is Not My Kink (And That’s OK). This is the idea that if you don’t like a particular kink or ship etc, that’s fine but you don’t need to attack or shame the people who do. Just leave them alone to enjoy their fics and art in peace and ask that they do the same in return.  KINKTOMATO is the “you do you” of fandom. It’s the “whatever floats your boat” of leaving other people alone. It’s an easy and judgement-free way of hoping that your fellow fans enjoy their content as much as you enjoy yours and understanding that different folks like different strokes.  Having preferences is human. Having squicks is totally normal. Everyone has NOTPs or lines they don’t want to cross. But fandom is a large group of diverse people with varying tastes and interests and backgrounds. Infinite Diversity in Infinite Combinations. Ship and let ship. Don’t like? Don’t read. Your kink is not my kink, and that’s okay.  This, writers. And yes, do bring back “squick” because if it makes you go “ew, ick” then that’s a squick, or a hard “uh no NOT for me” it’s a squick.  (Something that’s genuinely triggering will give you symptoms like hyperventillating, shaking hands, cold sweats, nausea, the feeling like you’re gonna faint, etc, but if it just makes you go “ew, ick” and scrunches your face in distaste, then that’s a squick, my friend.) just to add on - KINKTOMATO is not easy, which goes against the usual ‘it’s not hard to just hit the back button’ narrative but I’m gonna say it. most people think they can do this stuff just fine but usually what they’re considering as ‘things they don’t like’ are things they feel neutral about. ‘I’m not really fond of X but it doesn’t make me want to run for the hills if I see it in a fic’ is not ‘oh wow I really REALLY hate that’. it takes conscious effort to be fair about it. you have to resist the urge to be like ‘this is disgusting and I want to yell at someone for subjecting my poor eyeballs to this’. sometimes you gotta leave and do other things for a few days or even weeks just because you read the tags/summary on something and were like ‘oh god nope no ew ew ew’. nobody really enjoys practicing this type of self-discipline. it is sincerely unpleasant to encounter kinks you are repulsed/squicked by. there have been times when i was lax in reading through the tags or when i assumed a tag represented one kind of take on a thing but no actually it was another, way less appealing one, and it’s not a fun time to get that particular cold glass of water thrown onto your soul. be mature and fair about it anyway. resist the urge to be the fandom equivalent of those white suburban moms who yell at underpaid (or volunteer, in this case) cashiers and demand to speak to the manager. ignore the people who will try and appeal to you by telling you that your aversion is a result of some innate Goodness on your part and that people who make things you don’t like are Evil. And friendly reminder that both tumblr and AO3 have ways to filter out unwanted tags so that you can easily go about your day without seeing content for one of your squicks or notps. In fact, I find it good practice to do an AO3 search for all of my favourite ships, filtering out all tags and ships I don’t like, and then saving that page as a bookmark/favourite to make my future fic-browsing easier. That way, I never accidentally come across something that makes me squick. And whenever I come across another ship or tag that I hate, I add that into my ‘excluded tags’ list and resave it. It’s really simple and saves me a lot of pain and effort!
Sincerely: pieprincess-andthe-fallenangel:

westotanu:

jeanjauthor:

ao3commentoftheday:

You’ve heard of lemons and the Citrus Scale? Well, what about KINKTOMATO?
KINKTOMATO is an important concept in fandom. It’s a humourous re-spelling of YKINMKATO - Your Kink Is Not My Kink (And That’s OK). This is the idea that if you don’t like a particular kink or ship etc, that’s fine but you don’t need to attack or shame the people who do. Just leave them alone to enjoy their fics and art in peace and ask that they do the same in return. 
KINKTOMATO is the “you do you” of fandom. It’s the “whatever floats your boat” of leaving other people alone. It’s an easy and judgement-free way of hoping that your fellow fans enjoy their content as much as you enjoy yours and understanding that different folks like different strokes. 
Having preferences is human. Having squicks is totally normal. Everyone has NOTPs or lines they don’t want to cross. But fandom is a large group of diverse people with varying tastes and interests and backgrounds. Infinite Diversity in Infinite Combinations. Ship and let ship. Don’t like? Don’t read. Your kink is not my kink, and that’s okay. 

This, writers.
And yes, do bring back “squick” because if it makes you go “ew, ick” then that’s a squick, or a hard “uh no NOT for me” it’s a squick.  (Something that’s genuinely triggering will give you symptoms like hyperventillating, shaking hands, cold sweats, nausea, the feeling like you’re gonna faint, etc, but if it just makes you go “ew, ick” and scrunches your face in distaste, then that’s a squick, my friend.)

just to add on - KINKTOMATO is not easy, which goes against the usual ‘it’s not hard to just hit the back button’ narrative but I’m gonna say it. most people think they can do this stuff just fine but usually what 
they’re considering as ‘things they don’t like’ are things they feel neutral about. ‘I’m not really 
fond of X but it doesn’t make me want to run for the hills if I 
see it in a fic’ is not ‘oh wow I really REALLY hate that’. it takes conscious effort to be fair about it. you have to resist the urge to be like ‘this is disgusting and I want to yell at someone for subjecting my poor eyeballs to this’. sometimes you gotta leave and do other things for a few days or even weeks just because you read the tags/summary on something and were like ‘oh god nope no ew ew ew’. 
nobody really enjoys practicing this type of self-discipline. it is sincerely unpleasant to encounter kinks you are repulsed/squicked by. there have been times when i was lax in reading through the tags or when i assumed a tag represented one kind of take on a thing but no actually it was another, way less appealing one, and it’s not a fun time to get that particular cold glass of water thrown onto your soul. 
be mature and fair about it anyway. resist the urge to be the fandom equivalent of those white suburban moms who yell at underpaid (or volunteer, in this case) cashiers and demand to speak to the manager. ignore the people who will try and appeal to you by telling you that your aversion is a result of some innate Goodness on your part and that people who make things you don’t like are Evil.



And friendly reminder that both tumblr and AO3 have ways to filter out unwanted tags so that you can easily go about your day without seeing content for one of your squicks or notps. In fact, I find it good practice to do an AO3 search for all of my favourite ships, filtering out all tags and ships I don’t like, and then saving that page as a bookmark/favourite to make my future fic-browsing easier. That way, I never accidentally come across something that makes me squick. And whenever I come across another ship or tag that I hate, I add that into my ‘excluded tags’ list and resave it.
It’s really simple and saves me a lot of pain and effort!

pieprincess-andthe-fallenangel: westotanu: jeanjauthor: ao3commentoftheday: You’ve heard of lemons and the Citrus Scale? Well, what a...

Sincerely: prismatic-bell: kari-izumi: dancinbutterfly: edenfenixblogs: the-omniscient-narrator: spacevinci: somethingratchet: sheisraging: Cindy: Hey… can I be a Jew? Rabbi: No. Cindy: Can I be a Jew? Rabbi: No. Cindy: Can I be a Jew? Rabbi: You really want this? Sincerely? Not ‘cause this one’s trying to blackmail me for something stupid when I was 19 or for broccoli with your dinner? What is this for you? Cindy: Honestly, I think I found my people. I was raised in a church where I was told to believe and pray. And if I was bad, I’d go to hell. And if I was good, I’d go to heaven. And if I’d ask Jesus, he’d forgive me and that was that. And here y’all are sayin’ ain’t no hell. Ain’t sure about heaven. And if you do something wrong, you got to figure it out yourself. And as far as God’s concerned, it’s your job to keep asking questions and to keep learning and to keep arguing. It’s like a verb. It’s like … you do God. And that’s a lot of work, but I think I’m in, as least as far as I can see it. I mean, maybe I’ll learn more and say fuck the whole thing, I mean, but I wanna learn more, and I think I gotta be in it to do that. You know… Does that make sense? Shit, did I just talk myself out of it? Rabbi: Ask me again. Cindy: Can I be a Jew? Rabbi: Yes. I cried so hard during this scene. First of all, this is beautiful. Second of all, as a contextual note, the rabbi said no for a reason. In Jewish conversion, one of the steps is that you must be discouraged at least three times. This comes from the story of Ruth, where Naomi told her not to follow her back to the Jewish tribe three times before giving in. Third of all, this is beautiful. Adrienne KILLED it in those scenes. I wept with her! “It’s like a verb.” She wants to work on her faith continuously and that was gorgeous and so honest. THIS WAS SO IMPORTANT DO U UNDERSTAND. We aren’t a people who actively convert people. You’ll never see a Jewish person try to convert you. We believe in everyone’s right to believe what they want. But it was so nice to see someone who wasn’t raised in it be able to see value in my faith. I have never seen anything like that on tv before Not only that?? Its one of the only times I’ve ever seen Judaism The Faith and Religion ever actually articulated on screen. What do we believe? We believe that You Choose To Do God. Thats why we’re the Chosen People - because we Chose to Opt In To Doing God this particular way. I have never in my life before seen any form of media EVER express what Jews ACTUALLY BELIEVE ABOUT THE UNIVERSE out loud but OITNB did. And when people ask me? I always throw them here. Because it’s dead on. You do God (Jewishly) and you have to choose it. That’s what we believe. That’s it. Thats the entire thing. And this is the only time we have EVER had ANY representation and I will cherish it always. And for those of you who didn’t see the show? She got to bathe in a mikvah equivalent and convert fully so yes, Cindy is as Jewish as the whitest Ashkenazi Jew. More, because according to the sages, the convert is to be praised for their choice and their dedication. And as such, any children she has will be Jewish too. <3 Love for Cindy. Love to any religious Jews out there who feel unseen in media (you’re right, we aren’t seen). Love for any converts out there who don’t feel Jewish enough (you are - no matter what branch you converted in). Extra love for all my Jews of Color (no addendum - just love to you all period). Stay strong out there yall. Write yourselves into some stories and talk about our faith okay? We deserve to be seen and known, even if we aren’t converting. Demystification is part of the fight against antisemitism. All of this, but ALSOit’s so rare to see black people get to be any other religion of Baptist Christian. Or to even talk about that not all of us believe in God in the way we’re been taught. Most of what I’ve learned about Judaism I learned through the Jewish bloggers I’ve found here like @prismatic-bell @realsadjewishhours and @wetwareproblem among others, but even as an agnostic black woman, I was just as happy to see Cindy find her own way, and even happier to hear that they actually did right with the conversion process this time. And @dancinbutterfly’s last line is why, when my rabbi said I should go to rabbinic school, I said…..no.Rabbi means teacher, and there are a ton of good Jewish teachers of Jews out there. But there aren’t so many Jewish teachers of gentiles. It’s why I work at cons under the name Oy Vay Productions. I am like you, except where I’m not, and where I’m not should not have to be frightening or mysterious to you. And then, when someone is all “well the Jews are a bunch of wealthy lizards,” you can remember me, think of me teaching you not just about anime but about the fact that Jews are just people out here doing how we do, and instead of “that seems possibly incorrect but I don’t know enough about Jews to dispute it,” you can say “that is not true, I have met and been befriended by a Jew, shared a meal and a class talked, and I know better.”I do my teaching by being a loud and proud Jew who is out here doing G-d an living my life. There are plenty of rabbis with skills I could only dream of having. But what I do is just as important to protecting and preserving Am Yisrael.
Sincerely: prismatic-bell:

kari-izumi:

dancinbutterfly:

edenfenixblogs:
the-omniscient-narrator:


spacevinci:

somethingratchet:


sheisraging:


Cindy: Hey… can I be a Jew?
Rabbi: No.
Cindy: Can I be a Jew?
Rabbi: No.
Cindy: Can I be a Jew?
Rabbi: You really want this? Sincerely? Not ‘cause this one’s trying to blackmail me for something stupid when I was 19 or for broccoli with your dinner? What is this for you?
Cindy: Honestly, I think I found my people. I was raised in a church where I was told to believe and pray. And if I was bad, I’d go to hell. And if I was good, I’d go to heaven. And if I’d ask Jesus, he’d forgive me and that was that. And here y’all are sayin’ ain’t no hell. Ain’t sure about heaven. And if you do something wrong, you got to figure it out yourself. And as far as God’s concerned, it’s your job to keep asking questions and to keep learning and to keep arguing. It’s like a verb. It’s like … you do God. And that’s a lot of work, but I think I’m in, as least as far as I can see it. I mean, maybe I’ll learn more and say fuck the whole thing, I mean, but I wanna learn more, and I think I gotta be in it to do that. You know… Does that make sense? Shit, did I just talk myself out of it?
Rabbi: Ask me again.
Cindy: Can I be a Jew?
Rabbi: Yes.


I cried so hard during this scene.


First of all, this is beautiful.
Second of all, as a contextual note, the rabbi said no for a reason. In Jewish conversion, one of the steps is that you must be discouraged at least three times. This comes from the story of Ruth, where Naomi told her not to follow her back to the Jewish tribe three times before giving in.
Third of all, this is beautiful.


Adrienne KILLED it in those scenes. I wept with her!
“It’s like a verb.” She wants to work on her faith continuously and that was gorgeous and so honest.


THIS WAS SO IMPORTANT DO U UNDERSTAND. We aren’t a people who actively convert people. You’ll never see a Jewish person try to convert you. We believe in everyone’s right to believe what they want. But it was so nice to see someone who wasn’t raised in it be able to see value in my faith. I have never seen anything like that on tv before  

Not only that?? Its one of the only times I’ve ever seen Judaism The Faith and Religion ever actually articulated on screen. What do we believe? We believe that You Choose To Do God. Thats why we’re the Chosen People - because we Chose to Opt In To Doing God this particular way. I have never in my life before seen any form of media EVER express what Jews ACTUALLY BELIEVE ABOUT THE UNIVERSE out loud but OITNB did. And when people ask me? I always throw them here. Because it’s dead on. You do God (Jewishly) and you have to choose it. That’s what we believe. That’s it. Thats the entire thing. And this is the only time we have EVER had ANY representation and I will cherish it always. And for those of you who didn’t see the show? She got to bathe in a mikvah equivalent and convert fully so yes, Cindy is as Jewish as the whitest Ashkenazi Jew. More, because according to the sages, the convert is to be praised for their choice and their dedication. And as such, any children she has will be Jewish too. <3 Love for Cindy. Love to any religious Jews out there who feel unseen in media (you’re right, we aren’t seen). Love for any converts out there who don’t feel Jewish enough (you are - no matter what branch you converted in). Extra love for all my Jews of Color (no addendum - just love to you all period). Stay strong out there yall. Write yourselves into some stories and talk about our faith okay? We deserve to be seen and known, even if we aren’t converting. Demystification is part of the fight against antisemitism. 


All of this, but ALSOit’s so rare to see black people get to be any other religion of Baptist Christian. Or to even talk about that not all of us believe in God in the way we’re been taught. Most of what I’ve learned about Judaism I learned through the Jewish bloggers I’ve found here like @prismatic-bell @realsadjewishhours and @wetwareproblem among others, but even as an agnostic black woman, I was just as happy to see Cindy find her own way, and even happier to hear that they actually did right with the conversion process this time.


And @dancinbutterfly’s last line is why, when my rabbi said I should go to rabbinic school, I said…..no.Rabbi means teacher, and there are a ton of good Jewish teachers of Jews out there. But there aren’t so many Jewish teachers of gentiles. It’s why I work at cons under the name Oy Vay Productions. I am like you, except where I’m not, and where I’m not should not have to be frightening or mysterious to you. And then, when someone is all “well the Jews are a bunch of wealthy lizards,” you can remember me, think of me teaching you not just about anime but about the fact that Jews are just people out here doing how we do, and instead of “that seems possibly incorrect but I don’t know enough about Jews to dispute it,” you can say “that is not true, I have met and been befriended by a Jew, shared a meal and a class talked, and I know better.”I do my teaching by being a loud and proud Jew who is out here doing G-d an living my life. There are plenty of rabbis with skills I could only dream of having. But what I do is just as important to protecting and preserving Am Yisrael.

prismatic-bell: kari-izumi: dancinbutterfly: edenfenixblogs: the-omniscient-narrator: spacevinci: somethingratchet: sheisraging:...

Sincerely: Crutches&Spicec @Imani_Barbarin от Dear Doctors, Please don't kill black women because vou think they're faking it, cause that's what you're doing when you don't take their concerns seriously Sincerely, A Disabled Black Woman 7:12 PM Apr 19, 2019 - Twitter for iPhone 6.9K Retweets 22K jordyn ross @jross_x Some advice from my experiences working in the ER Ask the doctor "are you refusing to treat me?" If there's a scribe there, tell them you want it documented in your chart that the doc is refusing to treat you Ask the provider their full name, their biggest fear is being sued Crutches&Spice61 @Imani_Barbarin -Apr 19 Dear Doctors, Please don't kill black women because you think theyre faking it, cause that's what you're doing when you don't take their concerns seriouslv 2:55 PM Apr 20, 2019 Twitter for iPhone 15.3K Retweets 30.7K Likes jordyn ross @jross_X And to add to that.. sometimes the provider isn't the problem, it's sometimes the nurses. If that's the case, make sure you tell the provider that your nurse isn't getting things done for you or isn't caring for you properly 3:34 PM. Apr 20, 2019 - Twitter for iPhone 272 Retweets 1.1K jordyn ross @jross_x This leads the provider to keep a closer eye on your nurse or they could even get you a different one if that's possible. 3:34 PM Apr 20, 2019 Twitter for iPhone 154 Retweets 786 Likes neshatriumphs: wahtdahel: Sucks that we need this advice, but great that it’s being shared.  Reblogging for those of you who go to medical professionals…
Sincerely: Crutches&Spicec
 @Imani_Barbarin
 от
 Dear Doctors,
 Please don't kill black women because vou
 think they're faking it, cause that's what you're
 doing when you don't take their concerns
 seriously
 Sincerely,
 A Disabled Black Woman
 7:12 PM Apr 19, 2019 - Twitter for iPhone
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 jordyn ross
 @jross_x
 Some advice from my experiences working in
 the ER
 Ask the doctor "are you refusing to treat me?"
 If there's a scribe there, tell them you want it
 documented in your chart that the doc is
 refusing to treat you
 Ask the provider their full name, their biggest
 fear is being sued
 Crutches&Spice61 @Imani_Barbarin -Apr 19
 Dear Doctors,
 Please don't kill black women because you think theyre faking it,
 cause that's what you're doing when you don't take their
 concerns seriouslv
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 jordyn ross
 @jross_X
 And to add to that.. sometimes the provider
 isn't the problem, it's sometimes the nurses. If
 that's the case, make sure you tell the provider
 that your nurse isn't getting things done for
 you or isn't caring for you properly
 3:34 PM. Apr 20, 2019 - Twitter for iPhone
 272
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 jordyn ross
 @jross_x
 This leads the provider to keep a closer eye on
 your nurse or they could even get you a
 different one if that's possible.
 3:34 PM Apr 20, 2019 Twitter for iPhone
 154 Retweets
 786 Likes
neshatriumphs:

wahtdahel:

Sucks that we need this advice, but great that 

it’s being shared. 


Reblogging for those of you who go to medical professionals…

neshatriumphs: wahtdahel: Sucks that we need this advice, but great that it’s being shared.  Reblogging for those of you who go to...

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F̵̨͙̭̦͈̤̙͙̟̤̩̬̻͍̘̥̫̪̫̺̥̫̩͓͆͆̓́̔̍̍̔̔̓̍̀̋̕͜ͅỌ̵̶̗͕̼̙̲̜̭̬̰͈̥̱̲͇̟͓̫̦̜̬̼͕͎̞͍͙̹͎̟̣̺̫̗̌̊̏́͂̏̾̑̂̓̈́̈͛̀̒̐͒̂̅̾̎̇̽̀͗̾̍̊̾̔̓͊̚͢͝͝ͅR̶̛̛̟̺̺̙͎̹̙̫̲̭̃͋̃͊̏̃̓̅̓̔̈͗̀̄̒̒̒̊̏̔͊̀̈́̕B̴͎̯̘̱̼̤̭̆̏̕͜Ȋ̷̪̞̝̲͓̩̼̤̞̫͖̝̩̈́͐́̃͌̇̂̀͘̚͜͝͠҉̷̢͓̤͖̯̰͎͕̤̹̞̱̯̣̥̘͇̗͇̮̜̣̲̠̺̎̀͊̃̑́̓͑͂͂̕͘D̷̡̧̡͎̠͉͖͚̣̳̯̜͎͙͈͊̈́̓̄̈́̈̓̈́̓͘͘͝͠Ḍ̶̨̖̺̟̮̣̗̩̼̯̗̟̱̝̫͖̂̆̉̔͊̅̽͒̽̆̾̊͑̉̚͝ͅË̸̡͕̣̭͖̘̱̯̏͊̓̊̒̇̏͗̚̚ͅN̴̨̼͇̥̤̮̠̖̰̭̤̞̖̙̟͍͚̣̥͕͒̃̄ ̶̨̛̛̛̼̤̻̪͕͖͖̪͈̲͎̩̟̥͕͌͌̏́̎͋͊̀͒̍̍́̏̕̚͝͠͝ͅK̸̖͔̲͉̲͖̺̥̪͚̰̲̮̘͔͔̳͙̄̍͛͒̈́̂̿̋̓̊̇͐͛̈́̍͊͆͑̆̕͝͠͠ͅN̴̡̨̛͚̬͎̘̼̲̭̺̝̘̭̼͚͙͈͖̥͙̝͕͙̩̖̼͂̂̃̈́̀͒̀̎͛̀́̿͌͋̊̕͠͝ͅǪ̵̪͚̘͇͍͈͉͚͍̅́̃̿͝W̷̨̛͚̭̹̹̘̹̖̟̼̫̎̈́̀̆̀͌͛̋͋̋͒̿̎̌̇̓͘̚͘̕̕͝͠L̵͚̤͇̱̗̟̟͍̈͗͆̒̇̀́͋͛̍͘̕͝͝͝Ȩ̴̰̱̳̟͖̜̼̻͔͎͖̰̤̲̳̽̀̌͌̈́̅̾̓̒͗͗̓̈́̽̉͛̈́̏͐̃͘̕̕͝͝ͅḐ̵͚̠́̍G̸̡̨̛͍̩̮̘̝̩̱͈͓̃̅̽̽̒̀͋̿̀̉̒̏̑͋͊̿́̽̕̕͝Ȩ̶̦̯͓̝͇̗̖̠̜̠̹̰͎͚̗͍̝͌̋̀̃̒̆̍̈́͌

godtsol: F̵̨͙̭̦͈̤̙͙̟̤̩̬̻͍̘̥̫̪̫̺̥̫̩͓͆͆̓́̔̍̍̔̔̓̍̀̋̕͜ͅỌ̵̶̗͕̼̙̲̜̭̬̰͈̥̱̲͇̟͓̫̦̜̬̼͕͎̞͍͙̹͎̟̣̺̫̗̌̊̏́͂̏̾̑̂̓̈́̈͛̀̒̐͒̂̅̾̎̇̽̀͗̾̍̊̾̔̓͊̚͢͝͝ͅR̶̛̃͋̃͊̏̃̓̅...

Sincerely: kasperskky YOUR CHILD SEARCHED RESTRICTED TOPICS Sunday, Nov 03, 06:25 PM (time in the child's device time zone) Strairdrac The Netherwatcher searched for "Teaching crabs how to read" which is considered forbidden knowledge under your current parental control settings. DETAILED REPORT Sincerely The Kaspersky team godtsol:F̵̨͙̭̦͈̤̙͙̟̤̩̬̻͍̘̥̫̪̫̺̥̫̩͓͆͆̓́̔̍̍̔̔̓̍̀̋̕͜ͅỌ̵̶̗͕̼̙̲̜̭̬̰͈̥̱̲͇̟͓̫̦̜̬̼͕͎̞͍͙̹͎̟̣̺̫̗̌̊̏́͂̏̾̑̂̓̈́̈͛̀̒̐͒̂̅̾̎̇̽̀͗̾̍̊̾̔̓͊̚͢͝͝ͅR̶̛̛̟̺̺̙͎̹̙̫̲̭̃͋̃͊̏̃̓̅̓̔̈͗̀̄̒̒̒̊̏̔͊̀̈́̕B̴͎̯̘̱̼̤̭̆̏̕͜Ȋ̷̪̞̝̲͓̩̼̤̞̫͖̝̩̈́͐́̃͌̇̂̀͘̚͜͝͠҉̷̢͓̤͖̯̰͎͕̤̹̞̱̯̣̥̘͇̗͇̮̜̣̲̠̺̎̀͊̃̑́̓͑͂͂̕͘D̷̡̧̡͎̠͉͖͚̣̳̯̜͎͙͈͊̈́̓̄̈́̈̓̈́̓͘͘͝͠Ḍ̶̨̖̺̟̮̣̗̩̼̯̗̟̱̝̫͖̂̆̉̔͊̅̽͒̽̆̾̊͑̉̚͝ͅË̸̡͕̣̭͖̘̱̯̏͊̓̊̒̇̏͗̚̚ͅN̴̨̼͇̥̤̮̠̖̰̭̤̞̖̙̟͍͚̣̥͕͒̃̄ ̶̨̛̛̛̼̤̻̪͕͖͖̪͈̲͎̩̟̥͕͌͌̏́̎͋͊̀͒̍̍́̏̕̚͝͠͝ͅK̸̖͔̲͉̲͖̺̥̪͚̰̲̮̘͔͔̳͙̄̍͛͒̈́̂̿̋̓̊̇͐͛̈́̍͊͆͑̆̕͝͠͠ͅN̴̡̨̛͚̬͎̘̼̲̭̺̝̘̭̼͚͙͈͖̥͙̝͕͙̩̖̼͂̂̃̈́̀͒̀̎͛̀́̿͌͋̊̕͠͝ͅǪ̵̪͚̘͇͍͈͉͚͍̅́̃̿͝W̷̨̛͚̭̹̹̘̹̖̟̼̫̎̈́̀̆̀͌͛̋͋̋͒̿̎̌̇̓͘̚͘̕̕͝͠L̵͚̤͇̱̗̟̟͍̈͗͆̒̇̀́͋͛̍͘̕͝͝͝Ȩ̴̰̱̳̟͖̜̼̻͔͎͖̰̤̲̳̽̀̌͌̈́̅̾̓̒͗͗̓̈́̽̉͛̈́̏͐̃͘̕̕͝͝ͅḐ̵͚̠́̍G̸̡̨̛͍̩̮̘̝̩̱͈͓̃̅̽̽̒̀͋̿̀̉̒̏̑͋͊̿́̽̕̕͝Ȩ̶̦̯͓̝͇̗̖̠̜̠̹̰͎͚̗͍̝͌̋̀̃̒̆̍̈́͌
Sincerely: kasperskky
 YOUR CHILD SEARCHED
 RESTRICTED TOPICS
 Sunday, Nov 03, 06:25 PM (time in the child's device time zone)
 Strairdrac The Netherwatcher searched for "Teaching crabs how to read"
 which is considered forbidden knowledge under your current parental control
 settings.
 DETAILED REPORT
 Sincerely
 The Kaspersky team
godtsol:F̵̨͙̭̦͈̤̙͙̟̤̩̬̻͍̘̥̫̪̫̺̥̫̩͓͆͆̓́̔̍̍̔̔̓̍̀̋̕͜ͅỌ̵̶̗͕̼̙̲̜̭̬̰͈̥̱̲͇̟͓̫̦̜̬̼͕͎̞͍͙̹͎̟̣̺̫̗̌̊̏́͂̏̾̑̂̓̈́̈͛̀̒̐͒̂̅̾̎̇̽̀͗̾̍̊̾̔̓͊̚͢͝͝ͅR̶̛̛̟̺̺̙͎̹̙̫̲̭̃͋̃͊̏̃̓̅̓̔̈͗̀̄̒̒̒̊̏̔͊̀̈́̕B̴͎̯̘̱̼̤̭̆̏̕͜Ȋ̷̪̞̝̲͓̩̼̤̞̫͖̝̩̈́͐́̃͌̇̂̀͘̚͜͝͠҉̷̢͓̤͖̯̰͎͕̤̹̞̱̯̣̥̘͇̗͇̮̜̣̲̠̺̎̀͊̃̑́̓͑͂͂̕͘D̷̡̧̡͎̠͉͖͚̣̳̯̜͎͙͈͊̈́̓̄̈́̈̓̈́̓͘͘͝͠Ḍ̶̨̖̺̟̮̣̗̩̼̯̗̟̱̝̫͖̂̆̉̔͊̅̽͒̽̆̾̊͑̉̚͝ͅË̸̡͕̣̭͖̘̱̯̏͊̓̊̒̇̏͗̚̚ͅN̴̨̼͇̥̤̮̠̖̰̭̤̞̖̙̟͍͚̣̥͕͒̃̄ ̶̨̛̛̛̼̤̻̪͕͖͖̪͈̲͎̩̟̥͕͌͌̏́̎͋͊̀͒̍̍́̏̕̚͝͠͝ͅK̸̖͔̲͉̲͖̺̥̪͚̰̲̮̘͔͔̳͙̄̍͛͒̈́̂̿̋̓̊̇͐͛̈́̍͊͆͑̆̕͝͠͠ͅN̴̡̨̛͚̬͎̘̼̲̭̺̝̘̭̼͚͙͈͖̥͙̝͕͙̩̖̼͂̂̃̈́̀͒̀̎͛̀́̿͌͋̊̕͠͝ͅǪ̵̪͚̘͇͍͈͉͚͍̅́̃̿͝W̷̨̛͚̭̹̹̘̹̖̟̼̫̎̈́̀̆̀͌͛̋͋̋͒̿̎̌̇̓͘̚͘̕̕͝͠L̵͚̤͇̱̗̟̟͍̈͗͆̒̇̀́͋͛̍͘̕͝͝͝Ȩ̴̰̱̳̟͖̜̼̻͔͎͖̰̤̲̳̽̀̌͌̈́̅̾̓̒͗͗̓̈́̽̉͛̈́̏͐̃͘̕̕͝͝ͅḐ̵͚̠́̍G̸̡̨̛͍̩̮̘̝̩̱͈͓̃̅̽̽̒̀͋̿̀̉̒̏̑͋͊̿́̽̕̕͝Ȩ̶̦̯͓̝͇̗̖̠̜̠̹̰͎͚̗͍̝͌̋̀̃̒̆̍̈́͌

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Sincerely: 21 hrs Dear People Older Than Me: Shut up about the fucking participation trophies. We didn't ask for them. We didn't want them. We didn't cherish them and polish them while thinking about what special, gifted children we are. They were annoying clutter on our shelves that we had to throw out in secret so we wouldn't hurt YOUR feelings. And if we knew back then that you were gonna bring it up every time you disagreed with someone under 40 for the rest of fucking time, we would have told you where to shove that cheap plastic statue. Sincerely, People Younger Than Me Like -Comment →Share nt ◆ Share 214 133 shares 23 Comments straightouttanarnia: aproposthessaly: pearlsthatwereeyes: mihrsuri: star-anise: goshawke: hannibal-and-dory: pinkrocksugar: adramofpoison: children aren’t dumb. we knew that trophies meant nothing when everyone in the fucking class got one Also who was giving out those fucking trophies? SPOILER ALERT IT WASN’T US. IT WAS YOU. Who the fuck got trophies?? I got a piece of paper saying Participation on it with a cheap-ass shiny sticker in the corner! Sometimes they were ribbons. Sometimes they were just the gnawing awareness that you could never trust any praise an adult gave you. ^^^^ When I was in 7th grade, the administration at my middle school decided to make a bunch of changes to pep rallies, including changing the spirit award to the grade that showed the most school spirit to three spirit awards SO THAT EACH GRADE COULD HAVE ONE. We decided in about 2.5 seconds that this was fucking stupid and that it was pointless to have a school-wide spirit contest IF NO ONE WAS ACTUALLY ABLE TO WIN. Our entire grade organized ourselves and boycotted the pep rally in protest. We still went to the pep rally, but the entire 7th grade sat quietly in the bleachers and refused to cheer or otherwise participate. AND IT INFURIATED THE SCHOOL ADMINISTRATION. INFURIATED THEM. They ended up giving one spirit award to the 8th grade and two spirit awards to the 6th grade. At which point, our entire grade stood up and cheered, and the principal screamed into her microphone that we needed to sit down and stop cheering. Because we hadn’t broken any school rules, the administration realized they couldn’t punish us, and they changed back to one spirit award and got rid of the other unpopular pep rally changes. But they never forgave us. The principal saved up all of her anger for a year and a half and then called a special “promotion ceremony rehearsal” for our grade right before we graduated from middle school specifically so that she could spend an hour yelling at us about how THIS WAS NOT FOR US, THIS WAS FOR OUR PARENTS AND OUR TEACHERS AND THE ADMINISTRATION AND THE SCHOOL, AND IF WE FUCKED THE CEREMONY UP IN ANY WAY, SO HELP HER, SHE WOULD MAKE OUR LIVES A LIVING HELL.  So, yeah, tell me again about how my generation expects trophies for participating. I dare you. Someone somewhere has a great post about how all Millennials learned from this “everybody gets a trophy” culture foisted on us was to distrust conventional feedback methods (if everybody gets one, the system must be wrong and someone who tells me I’m good at something is probably lying). So the fact that we’re a generation filled with insecure overachievers with a well-documented lack of interest in conventional life markers is partly due to all those stupid participation trophies. Ruined a perfectly good kid that’s what you did. Look at it. It’s got anxiety
Sincerely: 21 hrs
 Dear People Older Than Me:
 Shut up about the fucking participation trophies. We didn't ask for them. We
 didn't want them. We didn't cherish them and polish them while thinking
 about what special, gifted children we are. They were annoying clutter on our
 shelves that we had to throw out in secret so we wouldn't hurt YOUR
 feelings. And if we knew back then that you were gonna bring it up every
 time you disagreed with someone under 40 for the rest of fucking time, we
 would have told you where to shove that cheap plastic statue.
 Sincerely,
 People Younger Than Me
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adramofpoison:
children aren’t dumb. we knew that trophies meant nothing when everyone in the fucking class got one

Also who was giving out those fucking trophies? SPOILER ALERT IT WASN’T US. IT WAS YOU.


Who the fuck got trophies?? I got a piece of paper saying Participation on it with a cheap-ass shiny sticker in the corner!

Sometimes they were ribbons.

Sometimes they were just the gnawing awareness that you could never trust any praise an adult gave you.


^^^^

When I was in 7th grade, the administration at my middle school decided to make a bunch of changes to pep rallies, including changing the spirit award to the grade that showed the most school spirit to three spirit awards SO THAT EACH GRADE COULD HAVE ONE.
We decided in about 2.5 seconds that this was fucking stupid and that it was pointless to have a school-wide spirit contest IF NO ONE WAS ACTUALLY ABLE TO WIN. Our entire grade organized ourselves and boycotted the pep rally in protest. We still went to the pep rally, but the entire 7th grade sat quietly in the bleachers and refused to cheer or otherwise participate.
AND IT INFURIATED THE SCHOOL ADMINISTRATION. INFURIATED THEM.
They ended up giving one spirit award to the 8th grade and two spirit awards to the 6th grade. At which point, our entire grade stood up and cheered, and the principal screamed into her microphone that we needed to sit down and stop cheering.
Because we hadn’t broken any school rules, the administration realized they couldn’t punish us, and they changed back to one spirit award and got rid of the other unpopular pep rally changes. But they never forgave us. The principal saved up all of her anger for a year and a half and then called a special “promotion ceremony rehearsal” for our grade right before we graduated from middle school specifically so that she could spend an hour yelling at us about how THIS WAS NOT FOR US, THIS WAS FOR OUR PARENTS AND OUR TEACHERS AND THE ADMINISTRATION AND THE SCHOOL, AND IF WE FUCKED THE CEREMONY UP IN ANY WAY, SO HELP HER, SHE WOULD MAKE OUR LIVES A LIVING HELL. 
So, yeah, tell me again about how my generation expects trophies for participating. I dare you.

Someone somewhere has a great post about how all Millennials learned from this “everybody gets a trophy” culture foisted on us was to distrust conventional feedback methods (if everybody gets one, the system must be wrong and someone who tells me I’m good at something is probably lying). So the fact that we’re a generation filled with insecure overachievers with a well-documented lack of interest in conventional life markers is partly due to all those stupid participation trophies. 

Ruined a perfectly good kid that’s what you did. Look at it. It’s got anxiety

straightouttanarnia: aproposthessaly: pearlsthatwereeyes: mihrsuri: star-anise: goshawke: hannibal-and-dory: pinkrocksugar: adr...

Sincerely: NEW EPISODE CN CARTOETw I WAS TERRIBLE TO YOU. I LIKED TAKING EVERYTHING OUT ON YO.. beta-kindergarten: Because this is, for whatever reason being discussed again in the tags, here’s just another reminder to everyone, and especially to my fellow survivors who see themselves in Jasper: SU has /never/ been ambiguous regarding who was in control of malachite. It was undoubtedly Lapis up until SWI, and even then you could say she and Jasper were working together to fight the CGs. Abuse by definition NEEDS to have a power imbalance between the victim and abuser. Jasper was never allowed that power, while Lapis is always described as the one who was in control, therefore Lapis was the abuser and Jasper was the victim. Victims aren’t always good people. Jasper is very much a victim of circumstance, both from the war and from Malachite. Yes, she’s abusive, but towards the corrupted gems, and has yet to be given a chance to unlearn her toxic behaviors. She’s a messy victim, she’s aggressive and angry, and there are so many survivors who act like this; and guess what, they’re still victims. Having “ugly” symptoms and feeling affection for your abuser does NOT make you the abuser of the relationship. It doesn’t undermine your abuse and certainly doesn’t justify it, no matter what vitriol this fandom tries to spew at you because you see Jasper as the victim. Abusers aren’t always going to be your enemy. They aren’t always going to be bigger than you, or physically stronger. They can be friends or family or “beach summer fun buddies”. They can be nice sometimes and absolutely terrible other times. And they can also have traumas of their own. This doesn’t change or excuse the fact that they’re abusive. Lapis is this kind of abuser. She was the one holding the chains, the one who acknowledges her own power (and fears being placed in positions of control because of it), and the one who regrets her decisions and is trying to stop being abusive. Frankly I don’t care about protagonist centered morality enough to even consider Steven’s point of view regarding Malachite. I don’t care what the CGs in the show have to say about the situation because regardless of how much of a “terrible” person Jasper is, it’s presented clearly to us who was the one being held in chains against their will. I also cannot be bothered to care about your definitions of “lashing out” or, “self-blaming”. Lapis made her intentions painfully clear that this was for revenge and wanting to take out everything on someone. She doesn’t love the earth nor does she want to play nice with the CGs. So don’t even try to tell me this because I’m frankly just /tired/ of being reminded that you people don’t actually care about victims if our behaviors or coping mechanisms are “wrong” to you. Also, of the 2 years that I’ve been involved in this hell fandom I’ve yet to see Jasper fans attack the inboxes or posts of Lapis fans to the same extent that the reverse has been done. Jasper fans don’t spread ugly rumors about Rebecca Sugar’s abuse history either, so it’s pretty ironic that WE’RE the ones who condone abuse isn’t it? tl;dr: You’re honestly disgusting if you’ve EVER tried to make a victim feel bad for liking Jasper, and I sincerely hope you grow up some day and learn that it’s not worth it to harm real people and survivors for the sake of a cartoon. And if you’re a victim who relates to Jasper, believe me when I say you aren’t alone and you aren’t a bad person. Keep doing you. ✌️
Sincerely: NEW EPISODE
 CN
 CARTOETw

 I WAS TERRIBLE TO YOU.

 I LIKED TAKING EVERYTHING OUT ON YO..
beta-kindergarten:

Because this is, for whatever reason being discussed again in the tags, here’s just another reminder to everyone, and especially to my fellow survivors who see themselves in Jasper:

SU has /never/ been ambiguous regarding who was in control of malachite. It was undoubtedly Lapis up until SWI, and even then you could say she and Jasper were working together to fight the CGs. Abuse by definition NEEDS to have a power imbalance between the victim and abuser. Jasper was never allowed that power, while Lapis is always described as the one who was in control, therefore Lapis was the abuser and Jasper was the victim.

Victims aren’t always good people. Jasper is very much a victim of circumstance, both from the war and from Malachite. Yes, she’s abusive, but towards the corrupted gems, and has yet to be given a chance to unlearn her toxic behaviors. She’s a messy victim, she’s aggressive and angry, and there are so many survivors who act like this; and guess what, they’re still victims. Having “ugly” symptoms and feeling affection for your abuser does NOT make you the abuser of the relationship. It doesn’t undermine your abuse and certainly doesn’t justify it, no matter what vitriol this fandom tries to spew at you because you see Jasper as the victim.

Abusers aren’t always going to be your enemy. They aren’t always going to be bigger than you, or physically stronger. They can be friends or family or “beach summer fun buddies”. They can be nice sometimes and absolutely terrible other times. And they can also have traumas of their own. This doesn’t change or excuse the fact that they’re abusive. Lapis is this kind of abuser. She was the one holding the chains, the one who acknowledges her own power (and fears being placed in positions of control because of it), and the one who regrets her decisions and is trying to stop being abusive. 

Frankly I don’t care about protagonist centered morality enough to even consider Steven’s point of view regarding Malachite. I don’t care what the CGs in the show have to say about the situation because regardless of how much of a “terrible” person Jasper is, it’s presented clearly to us who was the one being held in chains against their will. I also cannot be bothered to care about your definitions of “lashing out” or, “self-blaming”. Lapis made her intentions painfully clear that this was for revenge and wanting to take out everything on someone. She doesn’t love the earth nor does she want to play nice with the CGs. So don’t even try to tell me this because I’m frankly just /tired/ of being reminded that you people don’t actually care about victims if our behaviors or coping mechanisms are “wrong” to you. 

Also, of the 2 years that I’ve been involved in this hell fandom I’ve yet to see Jasper fans attack the inboxes or posts of Lapis fans to the same extent that the reverse has been done. Jasper fans don’t spread ugly rumors about Rebecca Sugar’s abuse history either, so it’s pretty ironic that WE’RE the ones who condone abuse isn’t it?

tl;dr: You’re honestly disgusting if you’ve EVER tried to make a victim feel bad for liking Jasper, and I sincerely hope you grow up some day and learn that it’s not worth it to harm real people and survivors for the sake of a cartoon. And if you’re a victim who relates to Jasper, believe me when I say you aren’t alone and you aren’t a bad person. Keep doing you. ✌️

beta-kindergarten: Because this is, for whatever reason being discussed again in the tags, here’s just another reminder to everyone, and...